Family, Love, & Interactions: Promises & Challenges

#GSEPFINDER has a multi-purpose objective including (i) To finding and selecting love in healthy and halal ways (ii) To enriching sustainable interactions and (iii) To retaining our youths and singles in the Deen using love and relationships.

#GSEPREMIUM is the GSEPFINDER Magazine dedicated to LOVE.

February Edition

“It is not righteousness that ye turn your faces Towards east or West; but it is righteousness- to *believe* in Allah and the Last Day, and the Angels, and the Book, and the Messengers; to spend of your substance, out of *love* for Him, for your kin, for orphans, for the needy, for the wayfarer, for those who ask, and for the ransom of slaves; to be *steadfast* in prayer, and practice regular charity; to fulfil the contracts which ye have made; and to be firm and *patient* , in pain (or suffering) and adversity, and throughout all periods of panic. Such are the people of truth, the Allah-fearing”.
Surah #Baqarah Q2:177
“Or do ye think that ye shall enter the Garden (of bliss) without such (trials) as came to those who passed away before you? they encountered suffering and adversity, and were so shaken in spirit that even the Messenger and those of faith who were with him cried: “When (will come) the help of Allah?” Ah! Verily, the help of Allah is (always) near!”
Surah Baqarah Q2:214
“But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their #strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint”.
Isaiah 40:31
“… Allah puts no #burden on any person beyond what He has given him. After a difficulty, Allah will soon grant relief”.
Surah At #Talaaq Q65:7
“On no soul doth Allah Place a burden greater than it can bear. It gets every good that it earns, and it suffers every ill that it earns. (Pray:) “Our Lord! Condemn us not if we forget or fall into error; our Lord! Lay not on us a burden Like that which Thou didst lay on those before us; Our Lord! Lay not on us a burden greater than we have the strength to bear. Blot out our sins, and grant us forgiveness. Have mercy on us. Thou art our Protector; Help us against those who stand against faith” Baqarah Q2:286
Verily, with every difficulty comes ease!

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January Edition. Please, read carefully, download, and share!

#GSEPLUS is the GSEPFINDER Booster in the format of a short write-up.

As you are praying, also be observant (kiyesi ara) and take #action (igbese).
Remember, tie your carmel, and then put your trust in the Lord.
January Episode. Please, share ‘The 3 secrets of a healthy, happy, and harmonious relationship’ to save a home!
Subscribe to the YouTube Channel of Kafayat Kehinde Lamidi
Listen to our humble scholars including Sheikh Nuruddeen Lemu and Ustadh Ismail Abdulsalam as we highlighted the 3Ss in an intimate relationship, the concept of Personal Board of Directors and Stone Wall. We outlined the three key questions (i) Is this person the kind of person I would like my child to become? (ii) Is the character and attitude of this person ok as h/she is? & (iii) Is s/he the kind of person I would like to be around 30 years from now and consistently continue to enjoy his/her company? for courtship and companionship.
Further, we discussed emotional and intellectual capacity to get to know each other in an intimate relationship among others.
Also, learn the Negotiating Period of the pre-marital stage and how to use the catchphrase ‘I would like or interested in getting to know you better’ rather than ‘I want to marry you’.
Further readings include The Six Need for Compatibility, Concept of Love Languages, and For Better: The Facts Behind Marriage.

Please, join us as we explore some of the controversial and contextual Pre and Post marital-related questions including (i) How to find and select partners in healthy and halal ways? Thoughtful insights provided by our 1st Speaker Sheikh Nuruddeen Lemu and (ii) How we can sustain and survive in-laws related challenges, expectations, and struggles? Critical perspectives provided by our 2nd Speaker Ustadh Ismail AbdulSalam



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GSEPFINDER Family, Love, & Interactions: Promises & Challenges

Calling all admirer of familyhood, lovers of humanity, and aspiring individuals. You don’t want to miss it. Please, save the date and set up a calendar reminder. See You There!
Please, come along with your team or members.

Meet the Global Speakers

Sheikh Nuru Lemu

Mr. Muhammad Nuruddeen Lemu is the Director of Research and Training at the Da’wah Institute of Nigeria (DIN), Islamic Education Trust (IET) in Minna, Nigeria. He develops, facilitates and conducts train-the-trainers courses in enhancing inter-faith dialogue and engagement, intra-faith cooperation, responding to various forms of religious extremism among Muslims, and promoting faith-based critical thinking – “Shari’ah Intelligence”.

He is a Director of several organizations including: Lotus Capital (Halal Investments) Limited, the Development Initiative of West Africa (DIWA), and a co-founder of the Inter-Faith Activity and Partnership for Peace (IFAPP). He holds various positions on a number of other organisations that focus on issues related to social welfare, government policy, education, business, sustainable development, environment, leadership, family life, youth empowerment and gender equity.  

Mr. Lemu has trained and given talks to students, lecturers, youth and community leaders in over 30 countries, and he has moderated, presented and produced more than two hundred radio and television programmes. He was nominated by the Nigeria Supreme Council for Islamic Affairs (NSCIA) to represent the Nigerian Muslim Leadership at the National Conference (CONFAB 2014), and his advice on issues related to violent extremism, religious intolerance and interfaith relations is regularly sought by various national and international agencies.

He is a Fellow of Aspen Leadership Institute (ALI) and member of the Aspen Global Leadership Network (AGLN), Colorado, USA; a Fellow of the King Abdullah bin Abdulaziz International Centre for Interreligious and Intercultural Dialogue (KAICIID), Vienna, Austria, and of the Africa Leadership Initiative – West Africa (ALIWA). He holds a MSc. in Resource Management from Edinburgh University, UK, and a bachelor’s degree in Agriculture from Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria, Nigeria.

His personal motto is “Growth and contribution with compassion, wisdom, faith and fun”.

Ustadh Ismail Abdul Salam

A Lead Missionary at NASFAT, Shomolu-Bariga. He is a Clergy/Missionary Worker, and a Teacher. Also, he is a Spiritual/Religious Leader. Ustadh Ismail studied Arabic Language at Lagos State University (LASU). He is the Acting President of the Alumni Association of the Thaqafatul Islamiyyah College, Cele-Nica, Ojo, Lagos. He is the Mufti of Imoore & Apapa Kingdom.

His personal motto and philosophy of life: Determination makes success. If you cannot get what you want (at a particular time) appreciate what you have.

Dr. Kafayat Kehinde Lamidi

Based on her diverse educationist role within the education sector, she is identified as E.A.S.E. This defines her as an Entrepreneurship Expert, Academic Scholar, Strategist, and Entrepreneur/Educator. She is the Founding Executive Director of the leading contemporary E-educational programmes Global Self-Education Platform (GSEP).

She is an Author. Her most recent books are entitled “Global Corporate Entrepreneurship: Perspectives, Practices, Principles, & Policies” (Volumes 1 & 2) and Global Business Hybridization: Perspectives, Practices, Principles, & Policies” (Volume 3).

Her motto: “Be the best you can with ease, Lord’s Will and Grace”

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